(Nick Galifianakis for The Post) | His soon-to-be-ex objects to him hitting on her new friend Carolyn Hax is away. The following is from Feb. 5, 2006. Dear Carolyn: "Susie" and I separated last year. Our divorce will be final soon. We have a young son and maintain a friendly relationship. When we separated, Susie moved with our son. Susie's new next-door neighbor Debbie has a young daughter, and Susie and Debbie have become friends. They babysit for each other, etc. I have bumped into Debbie from time to time, and we have developed a strong connection/mutual attraction. I recently made Susie really mad about something and called Debbie to talk to her and learn more. This flipped Susie out, and she demanded that I have no contact with Debbie. In order to maintain harmonious relations with Susie for the sake of our son, I have had no contact with Debbie. But I hate to just let go where there was a strong mutual attraction. Suggestions? — Perplexed in PA |